Number one Sister Wife question…What religion is Diane Noble?
October 18th, 2010
“Is Diane Noble Mormon?”
“What religion is Diane Noble?”
I was surprised last week when a friend who’s an expert in all things web related mentioned that these are two most often Googled questions that drive people to my site.
Wow!
My guess it’s because of The Sister Wife. Well, hellooo, of course it is. And maybe I’d better clear things up. If I can.
I was raised in an interdenominational community church in California’s Sierra Nevada back country. It was a church that my father helped build when I was six or seven. Straight out of “Little House on the Prairie,” it was brick red trimmed with white and had a steeple that tolled real bells until silenced by complaints from neighbors who wanted to sleep in on Sunday mornings. It was the only church in our little town, and had, because of a town population of 500, an extremely small congregation. I’m guessing perhaps 50 on Easter or Christmas — depending on the snowfall — and maybe 25 or 30 folks the other Sundays of the year.
To speak, or not to speak…in tongues, that is.
Our congregation was made up of families with varied backgrounds: Methodists, Baptists, Lutherans, Church of the Nazarene, Church of Christ, Church of God, and Mormon. I don’t remember any Catholics or Episcopalians, but that doesn’t mean they didn’t slip in from time to time — especially during the summer when campers swarmed to the nearby lakes. We had a few Pentecostals too, but they had a rough time of it once they decided to hold separate meetings so they could speak in tongues without the “no-tongues” folks complaining. That almost split the church down the middle, but folks came to their senses, a truce was called, and peace reigned over the issue.
Our pastors were also from varied backgrounds, and there were times when we didn’t have a full-time ministers in those early years, so fill-ins were welcomed up from the San Joaquin Valley. Quite a challenge for these hardy fellows — the nearest town of any size was two hours away. They had to make their way up a seemingly endless. one-lane winding road. And back.
Fried chicken and homemade apple pie…the second best part of Sunday dinners with visiting preachers.
My dad was an elder on the church board, so it often fell to our family to invite the visiting minister and his wife for Sunday dinners. (Always oven fried chicken with mashed potatoes and gravy or pot roast with all the trimmings.) Theology was often discussed during those dinners, and my brother and I soaked up the varied ideas and takes on Christianity — from rants of hell, fire, and brimstone should one displease God to portrayals of His grace and goodness freely given by a God of love.
My brother’s entertainment…the best part of Sunday dinners with visiting preachers.
After dinner when my parents moved everyone into the living room for homemade apple pie, ice cream, and coffee, my brother found it hugely entertaining to regale me with sideline antics that no one else could see. On one memorable event, he donned the minister’s wife’s pillbox hat, pulled the black netting over his eyes, and fastened the band (meant to hold the hat in place) under his nose, and paraded up and down the hall. I, of course, collapsed into a pile of giggling laughter in front of our guests and my mortified mother, and dear bro got off Scott free.
So, does this make me a Snazzy Nazzy or a Beeboppin’ Baptist?
My mother was raised Baptist, my father, Church of the Nazarene. But my dad believed that no one church has all the answers, no one denomination — protestant or Catholic — held all the truths. And he drilled into me — long before such a figure as Jim Jones was known — that if any one human being claims to have all the answers, or to hold the “keys” that will get me into heaven, that I should run the other way.
What about faith healers?
My dad observed firsthand some behind the scenes antics done by a big name “faith-healer” when a dear friend was dying of cancer so Dad shied away from all such human claims — though his faith in God was immense and all-encompassing. He truly believed that God could heal a person, if it was His will. Much of my father’s thoughtful views are buried in my heart and surface just when I need them. I love it when that happens.
My dad was a portrait of Christ’s admonition: “Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind’; and, ‘Love your neighbor as yourself’.” He didn’t just read those words and believe them; he lived them. He was a gentle and wise man who loved to sing of God’s glory. I wouldn’t call him religious; I would call him filled to overflowing with God’s Spirit.
But as the saying goes, God has no grandchildren.
I was a child of the sixties, so I had to try my wings (and at the same time, try God’s patience, and my parents’), veer this way and that from the path I knew was right. I made some good choices, some not so good. I had to find how God might fit into my life — if He existed — or how I might fit into His, once I decided I believed in Him.
A few decades later, my faith walk took a radical turn.
But I’ll save that for Part Two of “What religion is Diane Noble?”
Meanwhile, I’d love to hear about how your childhood experiences have shaped your faith walk. Did your parents have much to do with how you believe (or don’t believe) today? Are your beliefs similar to theirs? Or did yours take a radical turn? Chime in. I’d love to hear your thoughts.
With all love, peace, and joy…

Tags: Big Creek Community Church, faith healers, faith walk, Lloyd Hill, sixties children
Hi again Diane…I’m from Fresno by the way! Not sure if you’re still in these parts but thought I’d throw that out there.
I was raised “bapti-costal” down in the buckle of the bible belt (Arkansas). However, after several misadventures with a preacher, I have really hardened my heart in a lot of ways when it comes to christianity. So, I consider myself “Spiritual – not religious” as I am very spiritually in tuned with a God who is out there looking over me and taking care of me. However, I just dont exactly know who that God is and/or by what avatar he goes by. I have a story or parable that would explain that last comment ….
I’ve turned away from the christian up-brining that was forced and although the hymnals are still so close to my heart and a good service with wonderful music still makes me happy…I have very little faith in organized religion. Too many bad memories with a preacher who would do one thing on Saturday night and then preach fire and brimstone frm the pulpit on Sunday morning.
So, to answer your question…I’ve really been turned off by my religious up-bringing. However, I still have very spiritual beliefs and a close connection with God, just not in the same practice as what I was taught as a child.
Just thought I’d share
Dear Jan,
Thanks so much for your comment. Sadly, so many people have been turned away from God because of horrible actions by those who should be reflecting His unconditional love, His goodness, faithfulness, mercy, grace, and joy.
People in places of authority over a child or young person –
parents, clergy, teachers, relatives, neighbors…the list goes on — will someday have a lot to answer for. Jesus says in Matthew 18:6: “But if anyone causes one of these little ones who trusts in me to lose faith, it would be better for that person to be thrown into the sea with a large millstone tied around the neck.”
Growing up under the hand of a harsh parent can cause us to believe that God is the great policeman in the sky, ready to zap us at our first offense. Being abused– emotionally, physically, even verbally–can cause us to lose faith in God altogether.
How can we trust a God who’s image has been destroyed by a human who has robbed us of the ability to trust anyone, God or otherwise?
You mentioned you don’t know who God is or what avatar He goes by.
I admit I needed a refresher on the broader meaning of avatar, so I headed to Webster’s to find this: “the descent and incarnation of a deity in earthly form.”
Whenever my image of God has been clouded (and it has in the past for various reasons), I love to do a study of God’s character. I’ll post a list of verses in a separate post that I have gone to again to study these beautiful portraits of His holiness, creative power, love, mercy, forgiveness, omniscience, power, strength, and kindness — just to name a few.
As for an avatar–I couldn’t help but think of Jesus Christ, God in human form, as the perfect “avatar” sent by God so that we could know Him better. God incarnate, whose love is all-encompassing, whose understanding of our every thought, every heartache, is perfect because as God he created us and, as Jesus, He experienced so much of what we do as humans. I love to read Psalm 139, with a huge, relieved sigh, finding that He know us so completely, flaws and all, yet loves us with unconditional love.
Sometimes I close my eyes and imagine myself in various Bible stories as a way to “pray” and to get to know Who this God is … whether God the Father, God the Son, or God the Holy Spirit.
One that is very precious to me is the story of Jesus blessing the little children. I think of myself as a child on that day. His disciples try to turn me away. I stand back, my heart heavy because I’ve seen the love in His eyes, a pure and perfect and holy love–and I want to go to Him.
(If you try praying this way, use all your senses and imagination, “see” the clouds in the sky, the jostling crowd; feel the breeze on your face, the sun on your shoulders; listen to the lapping waves of the nearby sea, the call of seagulls…the stern disciples trying to bring order to the crowd.)
Then, listen as Jesus calls to you — by name. Hear the love in His voice.
The disciples step back, the crowd parts, and you hesitantly look at Jesus, perhaps afraid at first. Then you see the other little children around Him. You hear their laughter. You see Jesus talking and laughing and smiling with them.
He stretches out His arms, and you run to Him as fast as your little legs will carry you.
He lifts you onto His lap and holds you close — close enough to feel the homespun cloth of His robe, and to hear His heart beat. He wraps His arms around you, and you feel safe and loved — loved as if you are the only one in the world to love.
Blessings of love, joy, and peace…
I’m glad you decided to post about this. I decided to check out your website after looking at “The Sister Wife.” Being (Community of Christ) I have kind of a different perspective on Mormonism than most. Looking forward to part two!
Sorry, meant to say Being RLDS (Community of Christ.)